• BearOfaTime@lemm.ee
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    28 days ago

    That question can be clear by tone, and by level of trust.

    I’m a very curious person, so I want to understand what drove a decision (even if it was “I don’t know” or “Just seemed like the right answer”), and I want to understand someone’s approach to things - there’s lots to be learned that way.

    But yea, quite often it’s a rhetorical, judgmental question.