• miss_brainfart@lemmy.ml
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        1 year ago

        Honestly, in a situation like this, I don’t care. If I’m busy, I’m busy. And if politely telling them that is seen as rude, it’s not me who’s the problem.

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        1 year ago

        I don’t know anyone who doesn’t understand the concept of “I’m busy tonight.” Nor have I ever heard of someone thinking it’s rude to not always be available.

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        But if you have no intention to then you’re just lying and now you’re actually being an asshole instead of just being thought to be one