I’ll go first: “You have to have children when you’re young,” told to me when I was in my late 20s, with no desire to ever have kids, and no means to support them, by someone divorced multiple times with at least one adult child who does not speak to them.
Also: Responding to “How do I deal with this problem?” questions with “Oh, don’t worry about it, it’s enough that you’re even thinking about it!”
“You just need to focus and you can do it.”
Ah yes, my ADHD ass will just magically find this focus thing you speak of instead of the long and brutal process of finding the right combination of meds and therapy. Problem solved. /s
A couple of years ago I went to my GP in a very bad mental state due to what I now am fairly sure is undiagnosed ADHD.
My GP prescribed me a walk. Never been willing to try to talk to that doctor again.