I don’t think anyone is the asshole here. Hobbies are important to have, however it looks like you guys have an extremely packed schedule.
If you’ve never spoken to him calmly about your concerns before would be a good time. Come to a compromise. Instead of DnD two times a week, how about once a week?
Did the same thing with my wife, I play Thursdays from 9PM to midnight. She goes to bed by 9 usually so that works perfect and the rest of the week we can use our downtime to be together
I’m on Tiamats Wake in the Expanse series, love it
22 years to own the libs, lmfao