This is my take too. Reality has a liberal bias, and people doing skilled/educated work tend to have a firmer grasp on reality
Privilege breeds idiocy
Yeah that’s good context - you weren’t making her dog sit, you were having dinner, still with the intention of staying over.
AH meter going from 4 to 7 on this one.
Your aunt is a slight AH for revoking the offer, but I don’t think her behavior is that far out of line. She should have understood the importance of having some time with your immediate family, but I would understand if she was offended at your request going from spending time together (I guess?) to essentially just dog sitting.
You wrote it. You can’t re-read it?