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  • Back in the 80s one of my first jobs out of university was working downtown Toronto. One of my coworkers was this effervescent woman of Japanese-Canadian descent.

    She would talk about what it was like meeting guys in clubs.

    “So, where are you from?”

    “Scarborough”

    “Uh… no, I mean where are you originally from?”

    (feigning an “oh I getcha now” moment) “Ohh okay, yeah… Saskatchewan”, since that’s where she really was from, previously.







  • quaddo@lemmy.worldtoComic Strips@lemmy.worldWomen Should Just Be Honest
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    6 months ago

    Let me preface this by saying that I’m old. 

    I was out for a long run yesterday. Playing the Hype Running List on Spotify. Enjoying most of the songs/artists being played thwre, eg, RATM, Beastie Boys, even some older stuff.

    One song I was a bit meh about was The Boys Are Back In Town by Thin Lizzie. But this time, the lyrics made me stop and have a wtf moment. Here’s what I’m referring to:

    You know that chick that used to dance a lot Every night she’d be on the floor, shakin’ what she’s got Man, when I tell you she was cool, she was red-hot I mean, she was steamin’

    And that time over at Johnny’s place Well, this chick got up and she slapped Johnny’s face Man, we just fell about the place If that chick don’t wanna know, forget her

    And I was like “hold up, are they saying what I think they’re saying?” Like, why would she slap his face? And why would you guys be dismissive of her and cool with Johnny?

    Being hot/attractive doesn’t give you license to assault someone. So fuck off with that shit.



  • What the autotldr bot didn’t capture is this:

    In 2016, the officer who shot him, then-Const. James Forcillo, was found not guilty of second-degree murder in connection with the first volley of bullets, which court heard was fatal. He was convicted of attempted murder for the second volley, which was fired when Yatim was already on the ground.

    Forcillo was sentenced to six and a half years behind bars and was granted full parole in 2020.

    I’m not entirely clear on where “homicide” falls on the “second-degree murder” / “attempted murder” scale, though. To me, homicide has always meant the murdery type of murder. What does it mean for Forcillo?







  • Same/similar.

    Met up at hers to study. Didn’t study much, but we chatted a lot.

    She told me about how she was born with a birth defect (hips or tibias, I don’t recall now) and how fairly early her on as a baby she had surgery to correct it.

    The surgeon made a point out of really doing a nice suture to make the scars as minimal as possible, for future “young lady” her.

    She wasn’t shy about showing me, pulling down one side of her pants to show the pretty much invisible scar. “See??”

    And I did nothing. Call it good manners, call it being shackled by the fear of self-doubt.

    Geez. I just now remembered her full name. And it’s been more than 40 years now.