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  • such a weird world… i say, like what you like… don’t obsess or fetishize it…
    i’ve dated some extra short women, they did marvel at my height but it was more of a novelty… standing on things to kiss kinda thing…. it is weird being someone’s “type” because of a couple key physical attributes.

    but almost all women seem really short to me… i usually don’t really notice at first.



  • xor@infosec.pubtoCyanide and Happiness@lemm.ee14 August 2024
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    i just think it’s not that important if a girl is taller than a guy (or anyone) they’re dating….
    it’s a weird world i don’t know why people make such a big deal about these things….

    i guess i have been told by women that they feel surprisingly safe walking next to me on the street, and that it’s a big relief….
    maybe it all comes down to instinctual security?




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    it’s sort of a toxic masculinity thing… they want to be shorter than the person they’re with…. male roles of protection, reaching high things and carrying heavy things they can’t carry….
    my 5’10” ex dated a shorter man once, she said his obsession with her height was one thing that ruined it….
    he hated tall guys, wanted to sleep on top of her like a human bed… just weird dumb stuff….
    she also mentioned she liked that she could wear heels with me and not be taller than me… and we never got dressed up like that… she just needed the option or something.
    but hey, i’ve never even met a woman as tall as me… it’s not such a big deal.