• Kiwi_fella@lemmy.world
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    3 months ago

    I went home with a lady friend, who invited me into her bed, then said that we’re not going to do anything. So, I didn’t even try, and we just talked and cuddled. FF to two years later, and we start dating, and she questioned why I didn’t try anything that night. Like, duh. A lady says no, it means no. That is what I’ve had drilled into me as a male since I was a very young age. I’m so damn scared of being called for sexual harassment.

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      3 months ago

      I’m so damn scared of being called for sexual harassment.

      So, you aren’t worried about sexually assaulting somebody? You’re just worried about being caught?

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        3 months ago

        Oh fuck off, you not only knew what they meant, you’re being awfully dismissive of what even a claim of sexual assault can do to a person.