I originally thought about “and everyone in between”, but it does not sit well with me.

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        The dictionary disagrees with you

        (colloquial) Used to address a group of people regardless of gender

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          When I was a cashier I got a customer complaint because I refered to and I quote “A woman and her two young ladies” as guys.

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          Doesnt change the fact that especially trans people might not feel included in this term. I am not a guy and I dont want to be referred to as one.

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        At least regionally, “guys” as in “hey guys” and “you guys!!” and “uh, guys?” – that is, to address a group is indeed gender neutral.

        In the Midwest you will absolutely hear spaces comprised solely of women use “guys” to address the group. Only the oldest sticklers/prescriptivists would insist said group be addressed as “ladies”

        That said, more than a few trans women I’ve met – even locally – don’t have that lived experience and I can imagine they find it difficult to believe.

        The search for less ambiguous language to protect their feeling of acceptance and safety is worthwhile even though “you guys” is a neutral address.