• Seralth@piefed.seralth.com
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      11 hours ago

      men and women of power both have had harems for hundreds of years while also having respect for their first wife or husband. Harems by themselves don’t mean lack of respect. Its just a different dynamic.

      A single partner or many in both cases you can show respect or disrespect for others.

      • Rothe@piefed.social
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        You are imposing values from one culture upon a different culture. Respect is shown differently from culture to culture, there isn’t some universal way of doing that. So your example isn’t really applicable in this situation.

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          And what culture do you think i am from? In my culture anything but monogamy is considered a sin and evil. That doesn’t mean i cant respect others, understand history, or the basic concept of human consent. It doesn’t matter what culture your from. The entire FUCKING point im making here is that no one culture gets to decide what is or isn’t right.

          A harem in and of it self means NOTHING one way or another to these facts. What moral value get applied is a whole fucking DIFFERENT point.

          So fuck off.

    • zabadoh@ani.social
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      18 hours ago

      Sexual repression has its origins in Judeo Christian monotheistic religion, and religion is the opiate of the masses.

      So go ahead and be a sexually repressed prude.

      It’s how the elite want you to behave to keep you under their control.

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        14 hours ago

        If you’re going to fuck a bunch of people, make sure your partner is aware and approves. If they don’t, either don’t go fucking around, or get out of the relationship. If you cheat, you’re a cunt.

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        18 hours ago

        A harem is definitely not about control or a central figure in charge. Nope. /s

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        “Don’t worry honey, I’m not religious so I have no morals about non-monogamy.”

        “My wife? She knows I’m not religious so it’s fine.”